Firstly, I'd like to apologise for my absence. No excuses I just really haven't been feeling like blogging yet again. I've put it down to commitment issues (we all have them right?!)
Sadly this isn't a happy comeback as I have read Samantha Brick's thrilling article 'Any woman who wants to stay beautiful (like me!) needs to diet every day of her life' in the Daily Mail today.
I had seen some speculation on Twitter about this article over the past couple of days and after a while I realised that this was the same woman who proclaimed how beautiful she was a couple of months ago on This Morning. I first read the title and thought 'oh typical woman and fad diets' (forgive me) but getting stuck into the article, the tone completely changed along with my mood and opinion. I finished reading this horrific article red faced and brimming with anger. How can a woman be so self-centred, self-assured, self-indulged, arrogant and egotistical in one sitting?
Yes women diet and yes, we all feel a certain pressure to be thin. Brick for one has taken this a step too far. Just because she doesn't wish to eat chocolate, it doesn't mean her friends who brought chocolate to her house (as a gift) should be faced with her arrogance of throwing them in the bin without an offering. Just because she claims to have spent 30 years of her life on a diet [since the age of 12] it doesn't mean that every woman has to live that way. I personally don't see a connection between Joan Collins' appearance and her career. It's about talent in that industry which is becoming more clear in the present day. There is no way Brick can make the statement "And one of my biggest incentives is that I know men prefer slim women". Don't get me wrong, men appreciate a woman's physique and they have no qualms in saying if they don't like the couple of pounds you're carrying around your stomach. If my boyfriend had a problem with my body then he could sling his hook. I'd appreciate his encouragement but he certainly would not keep an eye on my weight. That figure is for my eyes and mine only! It may be true that male bosses are known for giving jobs to pretty women with a good figure but surely that only says something about the man and his priorities? She might be a nice bit of eye candy pal but it doesn't mean she'll be any good for your company. Hey if you hire a 'fat' lass you might at least get some free doughnuts!
Exposing her diet secrets and tips for the world to see is not encouraging in any way. Brick is allowing for men and women of all ages to read these and be influenced by her actions. It is extremely unhealthy and dangerous to live on marmite and toast for a year. She is glorifying eating disorders that so many of the population face today. Samantha Brick's article is enabling people who suffer with body illnesses, weight issues and so forth to continue their uphill battle by encouragement of an obnoxious, self proclaimed journalist. One thing I cannot comprehend is that she suffered from depression at a point in her life and 'ballooned' to a size 14. Where is her compassion for people who suffer with illnesses that affect their weight? For some people the way they look is not a choice. There is nothing they are able to do about it.
Her need to vocalise that she doesn't eat between meals indicates she is suggesting that those who do snack inbetween meals are overweight or unhealthy. Who ever said that eating three meals a day is healthy? It may be considered the norm but it isn't ideal for everyone's way of life. Her ending statement 'As I see it, there is nothing in life that signifies failure better than fat.' disgusted me. What a disgraceful and delusional thing to say. I don't understand how this woman feels the need to be so shockingly outspoken and address bigger people in such a manner. Nobody knows the in's and out's of another person's life. A quote comes to mind "Enemies will shout your mistakes but whisper your success". All I can think is that Samantha Brick's article has affected one too many people; hopefully more who now disrespect her than those who believe in what she has to say.
Personally, I thought we had made a breakthrough from when men controlled women; when men had a say in what women looked like, what they wore, where they went and how much money they spent. Sadly this article has made me question this change. Thinking about the article fills me with confusion, worry and anger. The way Brick began the article was enough. If she had wrote it as a way of declaring her opinion on the matter then maybe it would have been perceived a little more lightly. She would have still received high scrutiny but we're all entitled to an opinion. But she didn't. Everything she wrote was a statement and a bold one of that. Samantha Brick seems to enjoy talking more about herself than she enjoys her actual job. I feel sorry for this disrespectful woman. Not pity, just sorry that she feels the way she does.
Sorry for a deeper, angry post but this woman really frustrated me and got me thinking.
I hope noone has been affected badly by her article; she should really learn to keep such things to herself, as should the Daily Mail.
Hope you're all well!
Hannah ox
Sorry for a deeper, angry post but this woman really frustrated me and got me thinking.
I hope noone has been affected badly by her article; she should really learn to keep such things to herself, as should the Daily Mail.
Hope you're all well!
Hannah ox





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